The Advice Project is committed to bringing free media, empowerment, and writing classes and workshops to teen girls and women. Therefore, it’s with great pleasure that we announce a new fall class for teen girls 12 – 18 in New York City.
The Advice Project’s Media and Writing Class explores global issues that affect girls and women. Students will be given weekly readings to help expand their understanding of topics such as how climate change is affecting women, the media’s representation of girls, and gender equality. Continue reading
I’m Sorry. Photo: Leyram Odacrem
By: ANEVAY DARLINGTON
Standing on the subway as I headed home after a sleepover, my knees buckled from lack of sleep. Spotting a seat, I felt a wave of relief that soon turned to discomfort after I noticed that in the adjoining seat sat a man with his legs spread wide. I sighed, as I knew from experience that I would need to position myself in my seat with my knees locked or thighs crossed to allow myself enough room. Continue reading
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“What is this word, media?” whispered the girl sitting next to me.
I took a deep breath and looked into the expectant faces of seven pre-teen and teen Afghan-American girls surrounding me at the table at the beginning of our media workshop, then smiled and began a discussion about various forms of mass communication such as television, newspapers, film and music. I talked about how the voices of women and girls are grossly underrepresented in the media, yet how the bodies of women and girls are misrepresented. Continue reading
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“Mango” by Thor
By JULIA REAVES
A woman is gang raped and flung from a bus in India, Nigerian terrorists are stealing girls and honor killings are common. In the most recent atrocity to make the papers, two innocent girls from a rural village in India’s Uttar Pradesh state went to the fields to relieve themselves when a group of men surrounded, raped and strangled them to death before hanging their bodies from a mango tree. Continue reading
Photo by Danielle Helm
By ANEVAY DARLINGTON, New York
In a 2012 study conducted by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, teen girls aged 12 – 17 have depression rates up to three times higher than teenage boys. No wonder. As an almost 13-year-old teen girl, I have experienced firsthand how society has told me that I need to be beautiful, and that to do so, I need to wear makeup, be skinny and shave my legs. It is clear to me that the media heavily affects the way teen girls perceive their own beauty and self-worth. Continue reading
Right before we needed to leave for her cello concert, my daughter came out wearing dark black jeans, a black shirt and combat boots. Her hair was unbrushed. “You look like a mess,” I could’ve said, but I bit my tongue and instead asked, “are you ready to go?” My daughter nodded, waiting for me to command her to first change her shoes and grab a hairbrush. Instead, I surprised both of us by saying, “Darling, you look great. Grab your cello. Allons-y!”
Photo by Amy “Shadow Woman”
“Can I pluck your G-string?” yelled the man standing on the opposite subway platform, smiling.
I looked around. He wasn’t talking to me, right? And certainly he wasn’t directing his comment toward my twelve-year-old daughter, who stood with her cello on her back, as she did every Saturday morning while waiting for the train to carry her to her music lesson? Continue reading
Marking the first annual Menstrual Hygiene Day, India’s biggest newspaper, The Times of India, reports how Urmila Chanam, contributor to the Advice anthology and recipient of the Laadli Media and Advertising Award for Gender Sensitivity in 2013, has launched a campaign called “Breaking the Silence, Celebrating the Red Droplets” to dispel the myths surrounding menstruation Continue reading
Today it was an honor to lead an Advice Project workshop with some of the young women at Women for Afghan Women! Together, we read some of the letters from the Advice anthology, and then wrote and read aloud our own letters that partnered problems with solutions. Continue reading
Next summer, the Advice Project will be leading a group of teen girls and youth leaders to Peru for the 2015 Advice Project Global Leadership and Empowerment Summit. Over a two-week period, participants will live in a gorgeous eco-lodge located in the rainforest to learn about conservation, sustainability and women’s issues through a series of writing, empowerment and global citizenship workshops, and will also be taking daily hikes and adventures through the rainforest to nearby lakes to learn about delicate rainforest ecosystems. Leading the summit will be an amazing group of trained writers, professors, guides, indigenous women and local mestizo farmers, as well as filmmakers who will help participants to create short videos highlighting global women’s issues.
The summit was inspired by Advice Project workshops and classes already being offered to teens and youth in both the United States and internationally. In the classes, students have been responding enthusiastically to letters from the Advice to My Thirteen-Year-Old Self anthology. These letters have been contributed by fifty women from around the world, and deal with a wide range of themes such as beauty, depression and finding peace, following dreams, suicide, genocide, war, recovery and love. Students have been inspired to write their own letters, and are urged to partner problems any problems they might raise with solutions. Continue reading